Non-Career Advice is a series that asks people - young, old, and in a range of occupations - for words of wisdom unrelated to work, career-building, dollars, or getting ahead.
Kenta Thomas Naoi / Designer + Photographer
Also: Cat lover / nomad / new Brooklynite
Age: 23
Trust yourself — and don't let fear drive you. “There was a point in my
life where I thought I had my next ten years completely planned out. But
things don’t always work out the way you think they will — now, I take
things day by day. I wake up every morning with simple goals: I want to be a
good person, and a friend to others. I want to enjoy life the best I can. I want
to let myself be vulnerable. As for everything else — if it works, it
works. If it doesn’t, then I’ll figure it out. I trust myself. I’ve decided I’m
not going to worry about where I’ll be in ten years, because if I stick to this
way of living, I know I’ll end up wherever I need to be.
I used to think, I need to be the best, and I need to have these specific awards under
my belt, and so on. I thought, if I
don’t, then who am I? The fear of failing, and of being forgotten or undermined
was the driving force behind my actions — but over the last couple of years,
I’ve chosen to be driven by love. I
went from not wanting anyone else to be a part of my work — because I was afraid
they’d mess it up — to wanting to collaborate with everyone. I do what I do because it makes me happy. Once that clicked, everything only got better.”
Wow! So wise for his age. really great advice
ReplyDeleteHooray for him!
ReplyDeleteI love that too. Colaboration is always a good idea. <3
ReplyDeleteSo great! Perfect advice.
ReplyDeleteLaura, indeed! So wise.
ReplyDeletegreat great advice and i needed to read this. i'm at a boiling point with my work so i really need to start living with this kind of philosophy!
ReplyDeleteSuch good advice, as always.
ReplyDeleteWow. "I trust myself." Powerful stuff.
ReplyDeleteAmazing! Love the interview.
ReplyDeleteThank you all for reading — loved this one, too.
ReplyDeletebold and inspiring way to live - *high five* to Kenta! (love love this series Shoko)
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